hell also comes in the form of jeremy/andrew, kevin/allison, and matt/andrew/neil
Wow, I sure am glad I wrote you that Andreil AU you wanted only to get vague post called hell because could this post be any more obviously about me?
Like this would be rude enough if I was just some random blog you’d never interacted with, but I literally wrote a multi-chapter fic for you. Yikes.
But guess what? I don’t feel bad about also shipping not Andreil things. And I’m going to keep posting KevAaron stuff and Boyardan stuff and I’m still going to post that Jandrew that you haven’t even seen the context for and decided you know enough to be a bitch about. And I’m going to keep on shipping Daynolds too.
And clearly Daynolds is such hell and so disgusting and would never happen when Nora literally made this post saying Kevin would make out with her 🤷♀️
So people can keep following me if they want Andreil content and content for those ships and content for other ships.
And if you don’t want that content on your dash, then just don’t follow me or don’t read it or blacklist it or gee, I don’t know. Don’t send asks complaining about it to other people and don’t vague post about me? 🤷♀️ Just a thought.
Believe it or not, it is possible to not like a ship without being rude to people who do.
Considering the fact that you blocked me, instead of allowing me to talk to you privately and individually about the matter, I’ll post what I wanted to discuss with you here as well.
I would like to talk to you about both my post and your response to it. I’ll start off by saying that, no, I don’t like kevaaron but I don’t hold anything against people who do and usually, if I see it often enough, I’ll simply choose to unfollow. It’s really not that big of a deal to me. My friends were sending me asks about kevaaron as a joke because they knew I wasn’t a fan. So my response was as a joke, that’s it. It wasn’t a vague post towards you or anyone else, it was just a post about ships in general and I don’t care what opinion you happen to have on them. I don’t see why you felt the need to respond in such a way and assume it was directed towards you instead of messaging me so that we could have a conversation about it, but I can’t do anything to change that now. Additionally, I don’t think the fic you wrote plays any part in your argument, considering I view that fic as something that you wanted to write yourself for you. I never sent asks complaining about ships or told you to stop, since it’s your blog, your ships, your life. I’ve stated multiple times that I don’t care if other people ship something when I don’t, as long as it isn’t something disgusting like an abusive relationship or pedophilia. You could have simply unfollowed me or messaged me instead of assuming I was making a vague post about you that was meant to be harmful towards you or your writing. All I said was I don’t like the ships, I never said that other people shouldn’t or that those that write them shouldn’t. Your entire point was don’t be rude, yet your response was rude in order to prove that point. I never went into your inbox or reblogged posts saying that I disliked your ships, so I’m not sure why you felt the need to make a long post saying that I’m rude and writing vague posts about you. The post was never personal or directed toward you. I think ship wars are entirely pointless; ship whoever you want but please don’t attack me for not liking it, especially when my thoughts have no implications on yours whatsoever. Believe it or not, it is possible to like a ship without being rude to people who do not.
i wasnt gonna reply to this bc it’s going to start some drama i know it,, but this whole thing really bugged me….
I wished you Aaron fans knew that you’re defending a 20 y/o person, he’s not a kid that you can be ike “ahhh but he’s 16 he’s a teen and he has a lot to learn!! he lived with an abusive mother!! ” he’s a fucking Adult.
Look, I’m fucking 20 years old and i know exactly how to take care of my actions & words and how much it affects others. i’m pretty sure MOST OF YOU are almost 20/over 20. I’ve been through the same shit Aaron has been and it doesn’t excuse a goddamn thing?? Not because you were raised by shitty people it means you have to become one, and if you become one, that’s just you.
If i’m shitty i take care of it, and i apologize. No one has to put up with my shit or forgive my awful behaviour just because i had a rough childhood, is not their fault, and i wished you people understood that instead of making dumb excuses for Aaron.
He is an interesting character to analyze and criticize, and his relationship with Andrew is something I’d love to make a whole comic about, but you all Need To Stop and use ur heads a little bit. I’m not saying you SHOULDN’T like Aaron, just accept him with his flaws, just as most of us do with Andrew, because he has a lot of flaws too, being kinda misogynistic for starters, we know where it comes from, but we don’t excuse it (but if you do, use ur head too pls)
PS. since you say he gets uncomfortable with “sexual conversations” explain to me why he never blinked an eye with either Allison and Seth, or Matt and Dan, but wasn’t afraid of expressing his disgust towards Nicky, Andrew or Neil? Oh Yeah….
sorry to jump into this (i can delete it if you ask) but as a gay guy, this explanation is spot-on and aymmi is right. whenever people say aaron isn’t homophobic, i get really uncomfortable because like,,,, he is. you can like him as a character, he’s interesting, but he has flaws just like anyone else and he IS homophobic. and most of the people saying he isn’t either aren’t lgbt at all or they aren’t mlm, and you really can’t have a say in whether his actions are or aren’t homophobic. also, he wasn’t the one who called seth out for saying the f slur. andrew did that. aaron just said “don’t talk to us at all” which is pretty dismissive. all the characters have flaws, and you’re allowed to like them anyway, but don’t say that those flaws are nonexistent. even though aaron wasn’t militant in his homophobia, saying he’s not homophobic really erases the experiences of mlm who face casual homophobia daily. saying he’s ace doesn’t erase how shitty he is. and yeah allison may have condoned seth’s actions but did you forget about how aaron called neil the other f slur, insinuated disgusting things, and didn’t apologize for it? double standards, much?
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