FJHFH IM SO GLAD U ASKED okay so i know nora said that they don’t but i think she’s Wrong and let me tell u why,
nora says andrew and neil don’t believe in love and i can understand andrew holding on to that mentality for a long time but neil?
at the start of the books neil said “i don’t believe in family” and by the end of the second book – not the third, the SECOND book – neil calls the foxes his family
and that’s because his perception of family changes in front of his very eyes
now imagine that lifetime we know he spends with andrew and how his perception of love would change in front of his eyes in the same way
neil realises that love can be whatever he wants it to be, which in his case is the keys, the trust, the honesty and the kisses all that jazz
love is andrew joseph minyard
now on to the actual point of Getting Married
rmr how fuckin ready neil was in tkm to have his name become official and irrefutable??
the details of his relationship with andrew may be private, but they don’t hide the fact that they have one – it’s a real and tanigble thing they’ve never been ashamed of
i truly don’t think neil would be opposed to the idea because it’s something to say that they are officially a unit, just like those papers he signed in baltimore say that neil josten is a real person
andrew would see the perks too, mainly tax benefits he can use to fuel his luxury car addiction and being able to see neil in hospital with no setbacks
also if it ever came to it, andrew would be the one to ask
fight me
it would be a throwaway suggestion he’d make over breakfast and they’d be married before dinner
matt literally gets on a two-hour flight just to be witness
andrew wanted kevin because he’d make the least fuss, but neil insisted he owed matt for him having neil as the best man at his and dan’s wedding
matt arrives at the courthouse in a smart albeit rumpled suit and his hair is surprisingly nice considering he ran all the way over since the taxi wasn’t getting him there fast enough
meanwhile andrew and neil are literally just wearing sweats
neil has his team jersey tied around his waist bc andrew said he couldn’t actually wear it for the ceremony, so they compromised
they keep the certificate in their bedside drawer and don’t really talk about it again
but if neil slips up every so often and refers to andrew as his husband well then,
nathaniel gave andrew’s hair a cautious tug. andrew resisted the first two attempts but finally let nathaniel drag his attention back where it needed to be.