IM LAUGHING SO HARD I DIDNT THINK SEXUAL DESIRE WAS A REAL THING LIKE I ALWAYS SAW PEOPLE TALKING ABOUT HOW THEY WANTED SEX BUT I THOUGHT THEY WERE JOKING OR EXAGGERATING OR SOMETHING THATS WHY IT WAS SO HARD FOR ME TO REALIZE I WAS ACE BECAUSE I THOUGHT IT WENT WITHOUT SAYING SEX ISNT THAT IMPORTANT IM 19 YEARS OLD I CANT STOP LAUGHING LITERALLY 99% OF THE POPULATION EXPERIENCES SEXUAL DESIRE AND I THOUGHT IT WAS A JOKE
This is pretty much the definition of being an ace person, tbh, and I’m so glad.
this is literally the #that sounds fake but okay meme im dying
#ME#I THOUGHT SEXUAL ATTRACTION WAS RARE#AKA#HOW TO FIND OUT YOU’RE DEMI (via @miseryauthoress)
Honestly, every single cheating plotline never made sense because “but why do you have to have sex with them? just don’t??”
^^^^ Every single cheating plot line ever I was like: What is so hard about keeping your pants on what is your problem??
…do you have any idea how hard it is to do literary criticism that will get published when your reaction to at least 75% of character motivations is this makes no sense whatsoever why do they even care?
When people ask you why you don’t date someone just to try, and when you answer that well you’re not interested in that person, they explain that usually you don’t like the person at first, but you might fall in love after having dated a little while
and you’re just?????? but what?????????? is the point of dating someone if you don’t like them??????????????
what do you mean the point is making out and sex????????? why would i want to do that with someone i don’t already like?????????
I have literally experienced all of these.
this is why the gay/straight test always bothered me, like you kissed one person?? you weren’t attracted to?? therefore you’re straight? or i guess gay, i know people will test by kissing the opposite gender too, but like. kissing someone won’t make you attracted to them. you have to be attracted to them first, then you get a reaction and want to kiss them. at least that’s how i think it works, since, it’s never happened to me cause I’ve never been attracted enough to someone to want to kiss them
MEEEEEEEE
..this post is low key how I figured out that I was Demi lmao
Kevin has just seen the Ravens’ retaliation with the parking lot and the cars and watched Neil talk Andrew down from strangling Allison so I posit at least one of these three things is happening here (probably more is happening I imagine Kev’s head is a shitshow after that oh honey)
1: Kevin has been reminded of the day he met Nathaniel Wesninski and is trying to reconcile Neil’s face with
a) tiny Nathaniel, or
b) The Butcher of Baltimore (ouch, Kevin)
2: Kevin is trying to picture who Neil might have been if Riko had never got his claws in him
he’s just seen Neil take charge and show an impressive spine
(Kevin must be goddamn terrified right now but Neil. Neil survived Riko still fighting)
(what does he have that Kevin doesn’t)
(Kevin honey you’re so brave I promise, you’re fighting too)
“you should be Court”
not to mention Neil showing his moral fiber by refusing to give away Andrew’s secrets
3: Kevin is bisexual
how do I deal with above confused mess of emotions?