honestly though the fact that gansey’s shitty emotionally abusive neglectful parents never get called out for being the awful humans they are and are in fact pretty glorified by the narrative in the end is ummmmmmmmm bad
#same with niall lynch lol#there’s…….definitely an element of classism to this#because seondeok niall lynch and the ganseys are nowhere near as called out for their monstrous behavior toward their sons as the parrishes#are#and hey! the parrishes are monsters and should be called out as such!#but it is a Bad LookTM when the shitty parents who are rich get to be TroubledTM or Ultimately Good PeopleTM#despite niall’s behavior toward declan in particular being immensely emotionally abusive and involving physically endangering him#and henry’s parents refusing to pay his ransom and then using him as a tool for their family crime business lol#and gansey’s parents being emotionally neglectful to the point where they would rather him be missing for years at a time than admit that#he needs help and love and support (via @czarrish)